When things go wrong as they sometimes will
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And when you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.
Those opening words from the poem by Edgar A Guest first came to my attention in 1987, when I was a freshman in college. I had high hopes of being the best in my class (I wasn’t) or of graduating Magna, Suma or at least Cum Laude (I didn’t). I wound up almost flunking out of my second semester. It was hard, agonizingly hard, and after that first bout of difficulty I seriously wondered if I had bitten off more than I could chew.
Certainly this past year and a half we have probably all felt that way. Between the global pandemic of 2020 and the other various difficulties that we have faced as a human family, this has been a tough time. I have to admit, there have been several times during the past 18 months that I have felt like care has been pressing me down a bit.
Maybe you have too.
If you have, let me invite you to join me for a short rest. For five minutes, right now, take a rest. Take a moment and cast your mind back to what drove you to want to be different in the first place. Can you remember that dream? Maybe it wasn’t even a dream yet, maybe it was a glimmer of a hope. Can you picture it? Maybe it was hope for a better job, for a better home, for a less stressful life for you and your family, particularly your children.
Can you remember that?
Can you remember how good it felt to be on your way, to be taking the first steps toward the future of your dreams? Perhaps you remember the fire in your heart and soul when you announced your dream to friends and family. Perhaps they didn’t see things the same way, but that was okay! You knew you could do it.
Can you remember that?
Hold that image in your mind, for just a moment. Now, let me share with you the end of the poem.
Success is failure turned inside out –
The silver tint on the clouds of doubt
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far
So stick to the fight when you are hardest hit –
It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.
I graduated all those years ago, not because I was super smart or super talented or anything like that. I graduated because I wouldn’t quit. And then I got a Master’s Degree, and now I’m pursuing a Doctorate. And sometimes, I need a little bit of a rest, cause it’s hard.
But I’ve learned that the best things in life are at the end of hard times. Maybe you’ve experienced that too. It’s a special kind of bond, one that is shared by those who persevere.
Okay, enough of a rest for both of us. Let’s get back to doing what needs to be done.
I believe in you! Go forth and conquer!